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I’ve been dating this person, but I don’t trust him. He says he really cares for me and I want to believe him but I don’t. I want to trust him, but then I don’t. He says he’s honest but he hardly ever shows it. I don’t know what to do anymore. From Compton, CA
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I’ve been dating this person, but I don’t trust him. He says he really cares for me and I want to believe him but I don’t. I want to trust him, but then I don’t. He says he’s honest but he hardly ever shows it. I don’t know what to do anymore. From Compton, CA

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Is it wrong to get back with someone who broke your heart just to break theirs?

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VP Biden shouts out to teen leaders!

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Should I be with my boyfriend even though his parents aren't okay with our relationship due to their religious beliefs?

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I’ve been with my girl for like almost a year now and we got a baby on the way and everything. We argue a lot because she never really shows too much feelings for me or anything and she claims that she does and I give her pretty much everything I can. I always buy her things and I always show her love, I never slack on things I really give her everything I can. We argue sometimes because she’s not there for me. She puts her family before me and a lot of stuff like that. I know it hasn’t been that long that we’ve together but we got a baby on the way and everything, she’s like my family now. She is my family now I just want to know what I should do to make her get closer to me and everything because I’m starting to get sick of it.

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I try really hard to support my boyfriend and be there for him, but everything I do is wrong and that makes me feel really bad because I never know exactly what it is that I do wrong.

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I'm a really jealous person with my bf. I don’t like him hanging out with his cousins because I'm afraid he will cheat on me. I don’t even like him going out. Is this feeling normal? I'm scared he will leave me cuz of this. What should I do to not feel jealous over him anymore?

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Who Pays

These two are just starting to date, who do you think should pay for the meal?

My boyfriend and I know we’re not ready for a baby so we decided to use condoms. I’m too embarrassed to buy them, I wouldn’t want anyone to see me because then people might think I’m a slut or something. My bf thinks it’s not fair to put it all on him but I think it’s the man’s responsibility. If he wants to have sex with me, he can bring one, don’t you think? I mean, whose responsibility is it to bring the condom?

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