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Time Out 12/23/2009
 
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by Lana
Time Out
So one thing I realized over time is that taking some time apart from your significant other is a good thing. I mean you guys are still together but you guys aren’t talking for like a while or not spending time together, that doesn’t mean you guys are broken up it’s just some alone time with the girls or the boys, you guys aren’t looking for no one new because you guys are still together. It often makes you think about that person more and miss them and can’t wait to see them or call them. But a break the types of breaks where you guys break up that’s kind of different because you guys aren’t together y’all single and can talk to people well you don’t necessarily have to talk t other people.. But I really see that breaks make people realize what they have or that all they just needed was some time alone. And I notice it refreshes your relationship a little when you see each other and it’s just a good feeling when you see them again after a while.
 
 
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by Shakiyla
Terrance is now a member of cell block c
Terrance howard looks are really deceiving. In September 2001, Howard was arrested and charged with "simple assault, terroristic threats, harassment, and stalking" when, in an argument with his estranged wife Lori McCommas, he threatened to attack her if she hung up the phone. When she did, he went to her house, broke down the door, and then assaulted her. And he had nerve enough to speak on the Chris brown situation. If you think about it the scene from big mamma house is a reenactment of real life.
 
 
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by Ti'Ara
Pleasure p molestation
Link: http://allhiphop.com/stories/news/archive/2009/12/03/22053347.aspx
The singer Pleasure P (Marcus Cooper), was accused of molesting a four year old child in 2006. According to AllHipHop.com Pleasure P states that “All of the recent rumors and accusations that are being circulated about me are 100% false”, he also says “they are disgusting and vile; and they are being spread by individuals with their own sick agendas.” I personally believe that if it’s not true then you shouldn’t spread it. Rumors are like the game Telephone, once you tell one person something they tell another person and the next thing you know is everybody knows and it’s twisted. If the rumors are false it can damage his career.
 
Guido Heaven 12/21/2009
 
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TODAY WHEN I SAW A CLIP OF A SHOW CALLED JERSEY SHOREON YOUTUBE, I WAS SHOCKED BUT NOT ONLY THAT I WAS ALSO UPSET! I ASKED THE QUESTION ON THE INTERNET, WHAT IS THE SHOW JERSEY SHORE REALLY ABOUT? YOU KNOW WHAT POPPED UP, A HILARITY SHOW ABOUT ITALIAN PEOPLE WHO VIEWERS HAVE COME TO LOVE! ON AN EPISODE THAT I SAW OF IT, IT WASN’T VERY FUNNYAT ALL. IT SHOWED A GIRL NAMED SNOOKIE GETTING PUNCHED IN THE FACE BY A GUY WHO THEY CALL RED NECK. AT FIRST I DON’T THINK MTV REALLY TRIPPED ABOUT IT, BUT THEN LATER REALIZED THAT IT WAS A SERIOUS AND DISTURBING CRIME. THEY BLOCKED OUT THE SCREEN DURING THE ACTUAL MOMENT WHEN IT HAPPENED. IT WAS ALL BECAUSE SHE SAID HE WAS UGLY, BUT THAT STILL DIDN’T GIVE HIM THE RIGHT TO HIT HER. BUT BECAUSE THEY SAY THAT IT WAS A CRIME THAT HE WAS ARESSTED AND IS NOW IN JAIL. JUST BECAUSE IT’S A REALITY SHOW DOESN’T MEAN THAT YOU COULD JUST DO IT AND GET AWAY FROM IT. MY OPINION OF THIS IS THAT THEY SHOULD JUST STOP THE WHOLE SHOW, BECAUSE THAT WAS JUST WAY OUT OF LINE. I DOUBT THAT THEY WILL GO AND DO THAT! THEY PROBABLY MAKE A LOT OF MONEY, AND DON’T WANNA STOP THE SHOW BECAUSE OF THAT OR GET BETTER SECURITY. THAT’S REALLY A BIG DEAL. THAT’S DOMESTIC VIOLENCE OR IS THAT ONLY FOR RELATIONSHIPS? WHAT DO YOU CALL IT? JUST VIOLENCE AND ABUSE!!
 
 
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What do you guys do on your anniversary?
Well some girls expect the best and the most expensive gifts, when really it’s just the thought and effort that matter. Remembering the day you guys made it official and all the feelings you had when you said yes or when you asked them out, all those butterflies and nervous thoughts. It’s the cutest and memorable moment in your life, especially when it’s your first love or longest relationship… and you don’t always have to go out. Staying in and doing something cute and romantic that you can always remember is something good for your anniversary too. On my anniversaries I am always thankful that we made it through another year, over the years things might get harder but I am just thankful and happy we made it through another year and I always let him know that.
 
 
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by Daron on 12.17.2009
Sharing Phones? It’s All About Keeping it Separate.
 
I don’t believe in sharing phones because it could be a set up. You might be sleep and your loved one might try to go through your phone and see something they don’t want to and its going to be all bad from there and hell’s going to break loose.
So I would say it’s best not to share and everyone should have their own.

 
 
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by Jasmeen
Beyonce seriously is on some other ish. What’s up with that Video Phone video with Lady Gaga? Have yall seen it? The song is titled video phone but the video is so far gone it’s from Mars. It’s hella empty with no content at all. The only thing relevant is Beyonce is naked like the whole time!!! I don’t know where Beyonce went wrong, she is such a successful artist as is, and in my opinion she downgraded herself. To me it appears like an insecurity thing like ‘Oh I’m the baddest let me show off my entire body with no room for imagination here it is’. Beyonce is such a mature artist she never used to be THAT before this past SASHA FIERCE album damn… Wouldn’t you think a woman would become classier as she gets older not the other way around? How about that, a married woman jittering all in the camera with a piece of cloth referred to as a costume or leotard. Not hating on Beyonce, big Beyonce fan here. This blog is just an observation. Her whole persona has changed and I’m not feeling it too much. Beyonce was someone to love and sort of a role model, with the message of ‘you can be sexy without everything showing’ but, now it’s more of a competition as to who can be more naked. Man it’s out of Beyonce or Ciara.
 
Jon and K8 12/15/2009
 
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by Jasmeen
I think it is just for show.
What a mess of a relationship. Jon and Kate are the ultimate example of what NOT to do in a relationship. How can two people have so much love for each other one day then violently disrupt and hate each the next?? That’s psycho!! It almost reminds me of high school, when pretty much everything a person does is just for show. Jon and Kate both probably suffered deep insecurities throughout school so now they both want the lime light. What about their kids? I’m thinking it’s going to be a mess once their kids hit young adulthood then finds out how loony their parents were. Do they not think the on going public drama with them wont mess they’re kid up? Damn crazy stuff.
 
Precious 12/14/2009
 
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By Lanaya
I recently have seen the new movie, Precious. At first I didn’t want to see this movie because I thought it would be boring or just another life story. Fortunately my mom and grandma wanted to go see the movie and wanted me to come along too. At first I was like nah, you all could go, but I ended up having nothing else to do. When we got to the movie theatre and the movie started I was still in the same mood like I don’t want to see it, but as soon as the movie started I got right into it.
 
 
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By Jasmeen
 Usher seems like he knows a healthy relationship when he sees one. All of his songs speak on knowing when to go and when the relationship is over. Burn, Confessions, You Don’t Have to Call are not just great ballads but, real relatable relationship experiences. His new song Papers, is amazing!! I love the emotion it brings. He talks about being with someone but he was losing himself in the process. He loved that girl so much but they were constantly arguing. In the end, he was ready to get back to himself, ready to move on, ready to sign his divorce papers.