Boss Of Me - BOM411
My boyfriend has had sex with a lot of people and I lost my virginity to my ex-girlfriend, she’s the only person I’ve ever been with.  I want him to get tested for STI’s and HIV before we get intimate but he keeps telling me he can’t possibly have HIV because he’s never had anal sex and I don’t have anything to worry about because everything else is curable and it’s like catching a cold.  I don’t believe curable STD’s are like catching a cold but I’m kind of worried.  Am I overreacting or should I be worried about it all?

At 15, I decided to run away to live with my boyfriend who’s 4 years older than me. After the first month of staying together, he started saying I need to contribute to the household. I told him I can’t get a job and he said his friend would give us money if I had sex with him. I said no but he told me that if I really love him, I would do it for us. He told me an amount to charge and that I shouldn’t use condoms because we can get more money. I really want to help our living situation but I don’t want to catch anything or get pregnant by someone else. Am I wrong for not wanting to contribute?

I went down on my girlfriend for the first time a couple days ago and then yesterday she told me she tested positive for gonorrhea. My friends say I should get tested, but you can only catch STI’s by having sex so since we didn’t have sex, I’m good…right?

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